Ouch!! My left foot anckle still pains a lot. It got twisted yesterday as i slipped on kitchen floor because of an oil drop. I immediately took a pain killer, had to!! I wanted to meet V5593, my childhood friend.
As I know him since around 15 years, I would like to confess here that he is stubborn enough by birth and loves to WIN. [implies that he is a big time cheater in games. but at the end he proves himself to be as innocent as a new born baby.] He has a persuasive personality and a good convincing power. Thus people around him envy him or he himself places himself as their leader.
He can be the perfect pick to define current youth. He loves music, sports, roaming around and making new friends. He is crazy about electronic gadgets. He makes sure to collect the coolest of them. As much as he likes electronics, he likes automobiles. Precisely Enfield 500 and some cool cars. I wish to help him get his love.
Well, he also has a Lady Love in his life. It was very obvious for me when I came to know about it. He indeed is charming to get girls. [frankly girls like guys with happy-go-lucky attitude towards life so that they have chance to correct the same!! and he knowingly or unknowingly gives plenty of opportunities for it.]
He is deprived of Formals in his wardrobe. I bet his college friends would not even recognize him in perfect fitting clothes!! Just as in attire, he makes sure about presence of the comfort element in friendship even. he is frank enough to laugh out his mistakes but he would surely fight out even the world against him if he is sure about his authenticity.
He is very moody and hates two things. Reading and any constant thing. He keeps on changing his outlook either in form of hairstyle or ear-rings and what not! Till date he has tried out every fashion he feels comfortable in. And strangely, everything suits him well or at least I feel that.
And why not? Somewhere, I do have a soft corner for him. And even he considers me as his best friend. He knows me well and cares a lot. He never loses touch especially when I am in an unpleasent mood. I don't know how he gets to know about it but I get his text message or mail or a call and then he change everything or at least make sure I am ready to face the situation.
Last, but not the least, he is a total flirt package in himself. Beware girls!!
Monday, July 12, 2010
Wednesday, July 7, 2010
Cost of FRIENDSHIP
As I have decided to dedicate this blog to my friends...here it goes..
What does a friend need? good emotions, support and parties at all occasions. That's it!! And what does a friendship need? Silently, It needs very less things than any other relation in any case, and still becomes most trustworthy after a point of time. When friendship is extremely precious to someone, or as he/she claims it to be, one need not ask the cost for it. At least not put it in monetary terms!!
I was going to gift my Best friend (R2) a gift that he really needed and liked. It was worth Rs. 10500/- and I had only Rs. 6000/- arranged from tit-bits of my savings. (I started to travel by bus instead of auto just to save money. I stopped eating outside, I didn't buy books and pens for they totaled up in Rs.127/-) I called up his very good and close friends and opened up my proposal. After nearly 25-30 days, they called me to reply that they are willing to contribute Rs. 300/- per head!! (which would sum up to Rs. 1200/-) It was their luck that I don't have a habit of expressing my disappointment in really bad words. One friend really wanted to workout for the proposal but again The Indian Crab story....
I was about to for get about this when again the same thing happened with me while gifting another friend!!
For information, I don't have, never had, any excess money to spend just like that. but I am very sure about greater importance of friendship than money!!
I would never understand them for this criteria...neither I want to!!
What does a friend need? good emotions, support and parties at all occasions. That's it!! And what does a friendship need? Silently, It needs very less things than any other relation in any case, and still becomes most trustworthy after a point of time. When friendship is extremely precious to someone, or as he/she claims it to be, one need not ask the cost for it. At least not put it in monetary terms!!
I was going to gift my Best friend (R2) a gift that he really needed and liked. It was worth Rs. 10500/- and I had only Rs. 6000/- arranged from tit-bits of my savings. (I started to travel by bus instead of auto just to save money. I stopped eating outside, I didn't buy books and pens for they totaled up in Rs.127/-) I called up his very good and close friends and opened up my proposal. After nearly 25-30 days, they called me to reply that they are willing to contribute Rs. 300/- per head!! (which would sum up to Rs. 1200/-) It was their luck that I don't have a habit of expressing my disappointment in really bad words. One friend really wanted to workout for the proposal but again The Indian Crab story....
I was about to for get about this when again the same thing happened with me while gifting another friend!!
For information, I don't have, never had, any excess money to spend just like that. but I am very sure about greater importance of friendship than money!!
I would never understand them for this criteria...neither I want to!!
Thursday, July 1, 2010
What is FRIENDSHIP?
What is Friendship?? As man is a social animal, he/she needs people around. They talk, fall apart and are forgotten if not kept in touch. This is what I used to think until.......
Today morning I met HEMA. A simple girl, gifted with long brownish hair and a cute smile. Her sad, wet eyes penetrated deep into me to find a trustworthy friend.She wanted someone to talk her heart to. Fair and tall she, with her perfect walk came towards me. I was sitting in college corridor, with almost no lights on, near the window. She is a good friend of mine since I met her at a "GARBA NIGHT", nearly 2 years back. (here after she would be known as HEMA) But we never spent so much time together.
We exchanged the greetings and started to talk about the usual stuff in our respective lives.Slowly we started to know each other well and found ourselves just same as the other. she is also Gujarati. She likes music, dancing, painting, creative stuff, singing and even karate. We were same also in current and past personal life situations!!! Like me, She used to be center of attraction in junior college where everyone wanted to be with her, cared for her and silently considered her above them. But now its all perfectly antonymous. Again like me, no one in the class is a good friend of her, no one notices her, she is disintegrated from the group. CR Politics in her class ruined every effort of her for gelling up with the classmates. And now she herself has started keeping distance from others. We discussed if we could again be the person we were in past but she always remained on the denying side for it.
She also maintained a diary somewhere in the past and now also wants to write a blog! Correct, again similar to me. She accepted my dream of being a writer for a good fiction novel. she loves fiction. She actually dreams the situations. May be that makes her feel close to her mom. In that two hours that I talked to her, I could feel the intensity of her love for her mom. I promise here that I'll dedicate my first book to her mom. (may be I'll translate The Alchemist into Gujarati.) Well, she has already written a story, But I would rather keep it a secret as it is very close to her and may not like publishing it.
I am happy that she has found out someone whom she wanted as life partner. she said that he loves her, but she doesn't know that she is indeed sweet and lovable!!!
She has very matured approach towards life. Sometimes I feel I am still in search of something but may be she has found it. She might be apparently like me but she has had more harsh experiences in life. I personally would not be able to stand them. Still a hopeful thing is that she hasn't recoiled herself completely.
She could talk to me very freely even though we were meeting after may be 5 months. So I am forced to conclude that .......
Friendship does not live in the frequency of meetings, it thrives in heart - slowly and steadily.
Today morning I met HEMA. A simple girl, gifted with long brownish hair and a cute smile. Her sad, wet eyes penetrated deep into me to find a trustworthy friend.She wanted someone to talk her heart to. Fair and tall she, with her perfect walk came towards me. I was sitting in college corridor, with almost no lights on, near the window. She is a good friend of mine since I met her at a "GARBA NIGHT", nearly 2 years back. (here after she would be known as HEMA) But we never spent so much time together.
We exchanged the greetings and started to talk about the usual stuff in our respective lives.Slowly we started to know each other well and found ourselves just same as the other. she is also Gujarati. She likes music, dancing, painting, creative stuff, singing and even karate. We were same also in current and past personal life situations!!! Like me, She used to be center of attraction in junior college where everyone wanted to be with her, cared for her and silently considered her above them. But now its all perfectly antonymous. Again like me, no one in the class is a good friend of her, no one notices her, she is disintegrated from the group. CR Politics in her class ruined every effort of her for gelling up with the classmates. And now she herself has started keeping distance from others. We discussed if we could again be the person we were in past but she always remained on the denying side for it.
She also maintained a diary somewhere in the past and now also wants to write a blog! Correct, again similar to me. She accepted my dream of being a writer for a good fiction novel. she loves fiction. She actually dreams the situations. May be that makes her feel close to her mom. In that two hours that I talked to her, I could feel the intensity of her love for her mom. I promise here that I'll dedicate my first book to her mom. (may be I'll translate The Alchemist into Gujarati.) Well, she has already written a story, But I would rather keep it a secret as it is very close to her and may not like publishing it.
I am happy that she has found out someone whom she wanted as life partner. she said that he loves her, but she doesn't know that she is indeed sweet and lovable!!!
She has very matured approach towards life. Sometimes I feel I am still in search of something but may be she has found it. She might be apparently like me but she has had more harsh experiences in life. I personally would not be able to stand them. Still a hopeful thing is that she hasn't recoiled herself completely.
She could talk to me very freely even though we were meeting after may be 5 months. So I am forced to conclude that .......
Friendship does not live in the frequency of meetings, it thrives in heart - slowly and steadily.
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